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Gretchen Raring, LCSW

Experienced mental health professional

Provides online counseling through BetterHelp

At a glance

Gretchen is an experienced, licensed Mental Health Professional who specializes in affordable online therapy offered through our partner, BetterHelp.

4.5 stars
Clients are very satisfied with Gretchen. View 49 reviews
Speaks English
Offers Telehealth visits
Licensed in New Jersey, Florida, and 3 more

Recent reviews

Gretchen helped me find balance throughout a very dark time, in my personal growth. I really lucked out, finding her on BetterHelp!

Reviewed November 2024

I am still getting to know Gretchen; so far I like her and she is a great listener.

Reviewed August 2024

More about Gretchen

  • 24 years' experience
  • Female
  • LCSW, LICSW

My name is Gretchen Raring and I am a dedicated Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW-NJ, FL, AZ & ND, LICSW-MA). I received my Master's Degree in Social Work at Temple University in Philadelphia. I have over 20 years experience of specializing in treatment, outreach, and engagement with the mental health, addiction, homeless, incarcerated and/or veteran's population. Clinical managerial and program development experiences focusing on the seriously mentally ill involved in the Criminal Justice System. My key strengths are successful in outpatient therapy, community outreach, community collaboration leader, and history of successful program development.

As a therapist, I believe in therapeutic relationships based on deep acceptance, genuineness and collaboration towards personal development. I believe the needs and abilities of each individual are different and work with you to determine what approaches and techniques are most in line with your needs and strengths. My goal through therapy is to empower and motivate you to make positive changes towards the goals established while we are learning how to have a better understanding of ourselves. In my work with individuals, teenagers, young adults, families and couples, I use an eclectic approach depending on what will be effective. This may include humanistic therapy, CBT, trauma recovery model, supportive therapy, psycho-dynamic, integrative and/or emotion focused therapy. Please reference the full list below of the different therapeutic approaches that I use depending on the goals that are established together in therapy.

I specialize in the treatment of mood and adjustment disorders, anxiety disorders, depression, grief and loss and PTSD. Prioritizing self first by focusing on building and/or strengthening your self-esteem, self-love, self-care, silencing inner critic and/or work towards finding your authentic self. Please see the full list below that outlines what areas of experience and focus items we can work towards together as a team. I recognize and respect the courage it takes to make that first step and seek help, and it is a privilege to me to accompany you/teen/couple/family on your journey.

Specialties

Stress Anxiety Relationship issues Trauma and abuse Self esteem Depression Addictions LGBT Family conflicts Grief Intimacy-related issues Sleeping disorders Parenting issues Anger management Career difficulties Bipolar disorder Coping with life changes Coaching Compassion fatigue ADHD Abandonment Aging and geriatric issues Antisocial personality Attachment issues Autism and Asperger Syndrome Blended family issues Caregiver issues and stress Chronic pain, illness, and disability Co-morbidity Codependency Commitment issues Communication problems Control issues Coping with natural or human-caused disaster Dependent personality Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD) Dissociation Divorce and separation Domestic violence Drug and alcohol addiction Emptiness Family of origin issues Family problems Fatherhood issues Forgiveness Guilt and shame Hospice and end-of-life counseling Impulsivity Infidelity Intellectual disability Isolation / loneliness Jealousy Life purpose Men's issues Midlife crisis Veteran and Armed Forces Issues Money and financial issues Mood disorders Multicultural concerns Narcissism Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD Panic disorder and panic attacks Paranoia Personality disorders Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships Postpartum depression Post-traumatic stress Pregnancy and childbirth Prejudice and discrimination Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling) Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) Self-harm Self-love Sexuality Smoking / vaping cessation Social anxiety and phobia Women's issues Workplace issues Young adult issues

Treatment Approaches

  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
  • Attachment-Based Therapy
  • Client-Centered Therapy
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
  • Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
  • Mindfulness Therapy
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Psychodynamic Therapy
  • Solution-Focused Therapy
  • Trauma-Focused Therapy

Licenses

Gretchen Raring's National Provider Identifier (NPI) is 1194878371.

  • LCSW · New Jersey · 44SC05318800 · Expires August 2026
  • LCSW · Florida · SW15156 · Expires March 2025
  • LICSW · Massachusetts · 124622 · Expires April 2026
  • LCSW · North Dakota · 6418 · Expires December 2025
  • LCSW · Arizona · LCSW-21898 · Expires October 2025

About online counseling

Affordable.
Pay a low flat fee.
Convenient.
Do it at your own time and at your own pace. Communicate whenever you feel it's needed.
Available now.
There is no waiting list and no calls to make. Simply fill out a short questionnaire and send your first message.

Online counseling, also known as teletherapy, is a method of delivering mental health services through digital means such as video conferencing, phone calls, or messaging platforms. It can be an ideal option for individuals who have difficulty accessing traditional therapy due to geographical distance, time constraints, or personal preferences like privacy and comfort. Many people find it easier to open up from the familiarity of their own space.

Teletherapy has been found to be highly effective, with studies showing that it can produce similar outcomes to in-person therapy, particularly for issues like anxiety, depression, and PTSD. The flexibility and accessibility it offers make it a valuable alternative to conventional therapy settings.

Reviews for Gretchen Raring

All reviews have been submitted by clients after seeing the provider.

Overall rating:

4.5

49 reviews

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Clients mention: Great Recommend Amazing Helped Anxiety Caring Comfortable Empathetic Listens Supportive

Gretchen helped me find balance throughout a very dark time, in my personal growth. I really lucked out, finding her on BetterHelp!

Reviewed November 2024

I am still getting to know Gretchen; so far I like her and she is a great listener.

Reviewed August 2024

So far Gretchen has been great! I haven't been able to engage as much as I'd like due to my schedule. She's very understanding and has been a help with self reflection and things I've been working on.

Reviewed July 2024

She hears me out. Everything I have to say to express myself she’s just there to hear me out and guide me into things that will help me and to a better path. She’s great she’s a reason why I’m getting through in a good way on what I’m going though. She’s amazing

Reviewed July 2024

Gretchen has been an important support for me. Attentive, responsive and caring.

Reviewed June 2024

So far Gretchen has been very kind and supportive - I have only had 2 sessions but she has encouraged me to take classes which I have enjoyed a lot and find so helpful and educational! I feel just making the connection with Betterhelp has gotten me into a better place already. Love the tools, love the class instructors, lots of materials out there for everybody.

Reviewed June 2024

Gretchen is an awesome therapist..always listens and is very supportive ❤️

Reviewed May 2024

She was a great help

Reviewed April 2024

Gretchen is an amazing therapist that specializes is so many different things. She was my first therapist and introduced me into so many different things for my mental health journey. I highly recommend her for her experience and for overall being an amazing person.

Reviewed April 2024

So far, I have no complaints with my therapist. She is very understanding given the amount of information that I’ve dropped on in the first two sessions. She is very warming and welcoming as well.

Reviewed February 2024

Very empathetic, attentive, and knowledgeable. You're in good hands.

Reviewed February 2024

Gretchen Raring has worked with me a long time now. I feel very supported, and I am glad when she suggests new ways of working, such as the Journal tool, which after I fill it out, I share with her, and she always writes back. Things have changed a lot for me over the last couple of years, and Gretchen is always able to respond to whatever I have going on and help me get through it!

Reviewed February 2024

Working with Gretchen this past year put me on the path for maintenance rather than needed therapy for crisis mode. She helped me identify and develop the tools to manage my ocd, anxiety and keep from falling into depression. Thank you Gretchen!!

Reviewed January 2024

I feel very supported and comfortable during my sessions with Gretchen. She’s always go above and beyond and offering resources to help.

Reviewed December 2023

Gretchen is a very professional and caring therapist. Known her now for over 2 years. Not that needed that much time. But turned to her twice in that time for help

Reviewed November 2023

I have worked with Gretchen Raring for more than a year now. I find that she is very responsive and in-tune with whatever is happening in my life. I had a recent experience that scared and upset me, and she dialogued with me immediately through the site, it was all resolved by the time we met the next day. It is great to know that I have someone who knows my story, and will be there for me when I need them.

Reviewed September 2023

Gretchen is the absolute best! She is caring, kind, thoughtful & always willing to help! I can’t recommend Gretchen enough for others. She’s a wonderful person to have in your life! :)

Reviewed July 2023

Gretchen is an amazing therapist. Intuitive, thoughtful and caring. Our weekly sessions have helped me move forward.

Reviewed March 2023

She is the first therapist I actually stuck with. I have had bad experiences with other therapists on here but she is awesome. You can count on her to get back to you quickly by messaging and she's right on time for sessions. She's very empathetic and knowledgeable when it comes to trauma therapy. She is not a short term therapist that will leave you in the middle of your therapeutic journey. I definitely would recommend her to anyone needing therapy.

Reviewed March 2023

Gretchen is awesome. She is knowlegeable, compassionate, and is in tune to my needs. Highly reccommend!

Reviewed April 2023

I worked with Gretchen briefly. She responded to messages timely and shared articles that addressed my panic attacks. It helped me manage my panic attacks effectively. She listened carefully and were very empathetic during our live sessions. I appreciate her help and would highly recommend her to others.

Reviewed March 2023

I like how she makes me feel comfortable, helps me be more open and expressive about my thoughts. Thank you Gretchen!

Reviewed February 2023

I really enjoyed working with Gretchen. She takes the time to under her clients’ experiences through their perspective. She is very easy to talk to and does a wonderful job creating a comfortable therapeutic environment. Highly recommend!

Reviewed January 2023

Gretchen is great! She is very empathetic and down to earth. I always look forward to my sessions with her.

Reviewed January 2023

Gretchen helped me find the words to talk to my husband when I didn’t know how to express how I was feeling. With her guidance and suggestions I was able to get conversations going with him that I hadn’t had in 15 years together. She is easy to talk to and feels like a friend. I enjoyed getting to know her!

Reviewed January 2023

I love getting to know Gretchen and I feel like when we talk and connect, it feels like I’m talking to a friend. I have such a hard time opening up since I deal with anxiety but it’s so easy when it comes to talking to Gretchen ❤️

Reviewed December 2022

I re-entered therapy shortly upon having an OCD relapse after my father passed away. Throughout my sessions with Ms. Raring, we were able to identify sources of anxiety, childhood trauma and the appropriate CBT I needed to do to begin to work through these issues. While there is still a lot of work to be done, Ms. Raring has assisted me in identifying the areas I would get “stuck” in and provided helpful resources along with direction for me to develop healthy coping skills that I’m beginning to use regularly with success. She is persistent when necessary without pushing you too far and can help redirect or change direction(s) as needed. I had very low expectations after a negative initial pairing with a different therapist. I selected Ms. Raring myself and she has changed my outlook and raised my expectations that I can do this and manage myself in a healthy manner. My anxiety and ruminating has decreased to the point that I do not require daily medication; only as needed. My family and friends have noticed the changes too! She is friendly and open to your process; whatever that may be. Also is always punctual and follows through. I highly recommend her as a therapist if you are struggling with where to start, OCD, anxiety, depression, trauma healing, etc. I can be a difficult individual and she was able to help me (continues to help me each week).

Reviewed September 2022

Ms. Raring continues to assist me with making progress towards building healthy coping skills and parceling out how to process grief, trauma and combat my anxiety and OCD. I no longer waste time on things I can’t fix and avoid spending time at a standstill. Redirection is my new best friend and Ms. Raring taught me how!

Reviewed December 2022

Gretchen is fantastic! She is a great listener and is incredibly supportive!

Reviewed December 2022

There is no simple way to explain how instrumental a part Gretchen has played during the last year. She has helped me refocus on myself and f cf support system. I started better help on a whim, with no expectations, and originally paired with another therapist. I switched to Gretchen within a week and have been meeting with her since mid-April weekly. She

Reviewed November 2022

Listens

Reviewed September 2022

Always great talking to you

Reviewed September 2022

Since the first message, talking to Gretchen has felt like talking to a close friend. Her welcoming demeanor over both text and video has made all the difference in how I feel going into a session. Be it rambling on about how my week went, or delving into deeply rooted personal hurdles, she always not only made me feel heard in the moment, but also gave amazing professional insight where I needed it. You can feel how much she cares about and is genuinely interested in your thoughts and day-to-day life. She is also very flexible with her counseling styles and schedule. Gretchen is always prompt to respond, and also checks up on you during the week. She is undeniably the best therapist I have ever had. Thank you so much Gretchen!! You are amazing!

Reviewed September 2022

Gretchen Raring is empathetic and observant. She has helped me move forward and improve my life.

Reviewed September 2022

Gretchen is absolutely wonderful, she listens, she is supportive, and she makes herself available. I feel very lucky to be able to work with her.

Reviewed July 2022

She thoroughly listens and offers me a variety of ways to mitigate conflict in the most sensitive and efficient manner

Reviewed June 2022

Gretchen Raring really helps me process and walk through my issues. Her sessions and check-ins keep me going through challenging times.

Reviewed May 2022

She’s the best

Reviewed April 2022

Gretchen has been a great listener for me and is able to understand and empathize with my concerns. I would recommend her to anyone looking for a therapist!

Reviewed February 2022

Gretchen is a great conversationalist, who knows how to talk about sensitive issues and make patients feel less self-conscious. I am glad to be working with her.

Reviewed February 2022

Gretchen is responsive and insightful. I feel heard and supported.

Reviewed January 2022

Gretchen has been a great help for me.

Reviewed December 2021

I'm only a few sessions in, but i really like her so far. She has a great sense of humor, and i feel very comfortable talking to her. She answers all my questions and sends me follow up information which i really like.

Reviewed December 2021

Gretchen is amazing!

Reviewed November 2021

She is helping me build my confidence in a way I never thought I could do on my own. A pleasure to speak to.

Reviewed November 2021

I would like to thank Gretchen for how caring she is during a hard time in my life.

Reviewed November 2021

She is an excellent oasis in the middle of a storming sea

Reviewed November 2021

Awesome help. I recommend to everyone that are going through harsh times.

Reviewed November 2021

Gretchen has been of great help, I felt the benefits of talking with her from our very first session. She is helping me put mechanisms in place that will alleviate my stress, boost my confidence and overall make me feel comfortable in my own skin. Thank you.

Reviewed November 2021

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Frequently asked questions

Does Gretchen Raring offer telehealth visits?

Yes. Gretchen Raring works with clients by exchanging messages, chatting live, speaking over the phone, or video conferencing based on what works for the client at that particular time.

What language(s) does Gretchen Raring speak?

Gretchen Raring speaks English.

How many years of experience does Gretchen Raring have?

Gretchen Raring has 24 years of experience.

Where is Gretchen Raring licensed to practice?

Gretchen Raring is licensed to practice in New Jersey, Florida, Massachusetts, North Dakota, and Arizona.

Does Gretchen Raring accept clients outside of the United States?

No, Gretchen Raring does not accept clients outside of the United States.

Is online therapy as effective as in-person therapy?

Numerous studies support the effectiveness of online platforms in facilitating life changes. For instance, research published by JMIR Publications, conducted by teams from the University of Berkeley, UCSF, and SF General Hospital, found that "users of BetterHelp experienced significantly reduced depression symptom severity after engaging with the platform."

What treatment approaches does Gretchen Raring offer?

Gretchen Raring offers clients Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Mindfulness Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Psychodynamic Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, and Trauma-Focused Therapy.

How can I communicate with Gretchen Raring?

Gretchen Raring can be engaged in any one of four ways: (1) Exchanging messages, (2) chatting live, (3) speaking over the phone, or (4) video conferencing. You can use different ways at different times as you wish, based on your needs, availability, and convenience.

How do I get started with Gretchen Raring?

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