Works to fit my schedule. Listens well.
John Darling, BACP
Experienced mental health professional
Provides online counseling through BetterHelp
At a glance
John is an experienced, licensed Mental Health Professional who specializes in affordable online therapy offered through our partner, BetterHelp.
- 5.0 stars
- Clients are very satisfied with John. View 6 reviews
- Great news, John is accepting new clients!
- He is normally fully-booked.
- Speaks English
- Offers Telehealth visits
- Licensed in United Kingdom
- Accepts worldwide clients
Recent reviews
Excellent therapist and when I was really down it was good having that session with John, he listened and he was patient. Really helped me getting alot of things off my chest. Highly recommend him to anyone else who is going through pain in their lives.
More about John
- 20 years' experience
- Male
- BACP
If you are looking for support for difficulties you are having, do feel able to contact me for a free consultation. I have over 20 years of experience working with people who are finding life difficult and by working with you we can work out what is going on in your life that is causing you to not have the life you want. I believe that we have all created ways of coping with life and often these ways of being don’t work anymore and are holding us back from the life we want.
We all create a comfort zone that we feel safe in and where life can have some certainty. Unfortunately, life isn’t very predictable and the more we want to do and the more we want others in our lives the more we need to work to expand this comfort zone which can be scary so we resist and stay doing what they have always done.
I think that the relationship between myself and my clients is key. It might be the first time you have had someone who can really listen to you and wants to understand who you are, and what you want from life.
For me, therapy is a collaborative, dynamic process where you the client can feel comfortable with and confident in me as the therapist, so that difficult subjects can be explored in safety. This means building a unique working partnership with each individual client.
In my 20 years of practice, I have met with hundreds of clients from all walks of life with a vast array of issues, all needing that safe relationship where they could share their deepest doubts and concerns. Together we have worked to bring understanding with compassion and curiosity we have worked to bring relief and a plan to untangle thoughts, feelings and behaviours that are no longer working.
Integrative in approach, I have continued to explore different therapeutic techniques to develop skills that I match to the specific needs and circumstances of each client. In my experience, one approach definitely does not 'fit all', so I will work with you to create a plan that will be tailored specifically you as an individual (or couple). You may only need a few sessions to get through a transient crisis, or you might be looking for something longer-term to tackle more deep-rooted issues. Whatever the focus, I try to keep consultations as free of jargon as possible.
I look forward to speaking you.
Specialties
Stress
Anxiety
Relationship issues
Grief
Parenting issues
Self esteem
Addictions
LGBT
Family conflicts
Trauma and abuse
Intimacy-related issues
Eating disorders
Anger management
Career difficulties
Depression
Coping with life changes
Coaching
Compassion fatigue
ADHD
Abandonment
Adoption and foster care
Aging and geriatric issues
Attachment issues
Autism and Asperger Syndrome
Avoidant personality
Blended family issues
Body image
Cancer
Caregiver issues and stress
Codependency
Commitment issues
Communication problems
Control issues
Dependent personality
Divorce and separation
Domestic violence
Drug and alcohol addiction
Eating and food-related issues
Emptiness
Family problems
Fatherhood issues
Forgiveness
Gender dysphoria
Guilt and shame
Hoarding
Immigration issues
Impulsivity
Infidelity
Intellectual disability
Isolation / loneliness
Jealousy
Life purpose
Men's issues
Midlife crisis
Money and financial issues
Mood disorders
Narcissism
Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
Panic disorder and panic attacks
Paranoia
Phobias
Post-traumatic stress
Prejudice and discrimination
Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
Self-harm
Self-love
Sex addiction
Sexual dysfunction
Sexuality
Social anxiety and phobia
Workplace issues
Young adult issues
Treatment Approaches
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Existential Therapy
- Mindfulness Therapy
Licenses
- BACP · United Kingdom · 107541 · Expires February 2026
About online counseling
- Affordable.
- Pay a low flat fee.
- Convenient.
- Do it at your own time and at your own pace. Communicate whenever you feel it's needed.
- Available now.
- There is no waiting list and no calls to make. Simply fill out a short questionnaire and send your first message.
Online counseling, sometimes called teletherapy, refers to talk therapy delivered remotely through digital platforms, such as video calls, phone calls, or chat. It can be a great option for people who face barriers to traditional face-to-face therapy, such as those living in remote areas, individuals with mobility issues, or people with busy schedules that make it difficult to attend in-person sessions.
Teletherapy also offers greater convenience and flexibility, allowing clients to access care from the comfort of their homes. Research shows that the treatment outcomes with online counseling are often just as effective as with traditional therapy, providing a viable alternative for individuals seeking mental health support.
Reviews for John Darling
All reviews have been submitted by clients after seeing the provider.
Overall rating:
Works to fit my schedule. Listens well.
Excellent therapist and when I was really down it was good having that session with John, he listened and he was patient. Really helped me getting alot of things off my chest. Highly recommend him to anyone else who is going through pain in their lives.
I’ve met John after switching from two other therapists on Betterhelp and he has been kind and supporting. He is easy and comfortable to talk with. He has helped me steer in the right direction towards reaching my goals.
John Darling helped me a lot with my eating disorder. The situation has improved really quickly. I strongly recommend him as a tactful and competent therapist.
John is a caring, empathetic therapist who truly listens to concerns. I appreciate his way of letting me work through past traumas and current issues do to these in a sensitive, kind manner. I do not leave sessions feeling overwhelmed and that I am gradually working on my issues
He's been proactive and helpful, highly recommend.
Frequently asked questions
Does John Darling offer telehealth visits?
Yes. John Darling works with clients by exchanging messages, chatting live, speaking over the phone, or video conferencing based on what works for the client at that particular time.
What language(s) does John Darling speak?
John Darling speaks English.
How many years of experience does John Darling have?
John Darling has 20 years of experience.
Where is John Darling licensed to practice?
John Darling is licensed to practice in the United Kingdom.
Does John Darling accept clients outside of the United Kingdom?
Yes, John Darling accepts clients outside of the United Kingdom.
Is online therapy as effective as in-person therapy?
Numerous studies support the effectiveness of online platforms in facilitating life changes. For instance, research published by JMIR Publications, conducted by teams from the University of Berkeley, UCSF, and SF General Hospital, found that "users of BetterHelp experienced significantly reduced depression symptom severity after engaging with the platform."
What treatment approaches does John Darling offer?
John Darling offers clients Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Existential Therapy, and Mindfulness Therapy.
How can I communicate with John Darling?
John Darling can be engaged in any one of four ways: (1) Exchanging messages, (2) chatting live, (3) speaking over the phone, or (4) video conferencing. You can use different ways at different times as you wish, based on your needs, availability, and convenience.
How do I get started with John Darling?
Just tap the CHAT NOW button or tap here: A new window will open and you'll be directed to a simple form that will help start the conversation. Please note: It can take up to a few days to be matched to a therapist.
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When you tap CHAT NOW a new window will open and you'll be directed to a simple form that will help start the conversation. Please note: It can take up to a few days to be matched to a therapist.